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by Rainbow_connection
Mon Jul 06, 2015 1:33 pm
Forum: Reader Response
Topic: the players gonna play play play play play
Replies: 6
Views: 5669

Re: the players gonna play play play play play

Good point! I've known people who were cheated on by SOs when they'd been together for about two weeks. I'm sure it's still painful to have someone lose interest in you when you thought things were going well, but adding a broken exclusive status makes it worse.
by Rainbow_connection
Thu Jul 02, 2015 1:09 pm
Forum: Reader Response
Topic: wedding night horror...or just provo urban legends
Replies: 10
Views: 6668

Re: wedding night horror...or just provo urban legends

http://www.snopes.com/pregnant/fertility.asp
This is a snopes page about the "didn't know we have to have sex" legend.
by Rainbow_connection
Thu Jul 02, 2015 11:46 am
Forum: Reader Response
Topic: wedding night horror...or just provo urban legends
Replies: 10
Views: 6668

Re: wedding night horror...or just provo urban legends

I've heard both of those stories but with generic Christians instead of specifically Mormons. I vote urban legend too.
by Rainbow_connection
Tue Jun 23, 2015 1:32 pm
Forum: Soapbox
Topic: Rant of the Day
Replies: 630
Views: 1169516

Re: Rant of the Day

Positive reinforcement of desired behaviors and time. Neither of which is always very comforting when you're dealing with a toddler, but there it is.
by Rainbow_connection
Tue Jun 23, 2015 12:26 pm
Forum: Soapbox
Topic: Rant of the Day
Replies: 630
Views: 1169516

Re: Rant of the Day

All the research I've read says that punishing toddlers has no (or negative) effect on their long-term behavior, although you can usually get them to stop the undesired behavior right then. I theorize it may be because children have more complex emotional needs than lab rats. So a lab rat is just ch...
by Rainbow_connection
Sat Jun 20, 2015 8:52 pm
Forum: Reader Response
Topic: 82822 - Pregnant Trek Ma
Replies: 1
Views: 3034

82822 - Pregnant Trek Ma

When I was between one and three months pregnant, I was so sick and tired I wanted to die. There were two foods altogether that I could eat without vomiting (saltine crackers and macaroni and cheese) and the smell of most other foods also made me want to throw up. I would wake up, dry heave, drag my...
by Rainbow_connection
Fri Jun 19, 2015 3:25 pm
Forum: Soapbox
Topic: I feel like I got shot.
Replies: 5
Views: 10776

Re: I feel like I got shot.

I'm so sorry. I don't have anything to make it feel better, because that's devastating. And I hope you take time to grieve and find some peace eventually.
by Rainbow_connection
Wed Jun 17, 2015 12:37 pm
Forum: Reader Response
Topic: 82781- Chicken Pox and Judgement
Replies: 15
Views: 9074

Re: 82781- Chicken Pox and Judgement

I always forget that chickenpox is actually one word. Here's a group on Facebook that seems sincere and has 810 likes. Here's another website that you have to create an account for. I did, for science. It's not terribly active but the people seem sincere. Sample post: "I am willing to drive any...
by Rainbow_connection
Tue Jun 16, 2015 2:46 pm
Forum: Reader Response
Topic: 82781- Chicken Pox and Judgement
Replies: 15
Views: 9074

Re: 82781- Chicken Pox and Judgement

I thought the question was referring to current people who are now (in the 2010s) holding chicken pox parties. I've heard that these are happening in anti-vax communities, although they might be apocryphal? I did find a handful of Facebook groups dedicated to "networking for chicken pox parties...
by Rainbow_connection
Sun Jun 14, 2015 3:20 pm
Forum: Reader Response
Topic: Long Talkers
Replies: 5
Views: 4574

Re: Long Talkers

I have a visiting teachee who's a long talker. When I have to meet with her I let her know upfront how long I can stay while leaving myself a buffer of about ten minutes. Then at the appointed time, I say we have to go and we stand up, which tends to speed along the goodbyes and final thoughts. Alte...
by Rainbow_connection
Tue Jun 02, 2015 10:52 pm
Forum: Random Chatter
Topic: Happy Days in Random Chatter 10
Replies: 5227
Views: 4907642

Re: Happy Days in Random Chatter 10

Fair hair is definitely an advantage! I have extremely dark hair and extremely pale skin, and even immediately after shaving the roots of my leg and underarm hair are visible (as in they can be clearly seen but not felt through my skin and it looks like I have two or three days worth of stubble). It...
by Rainbow_connection
Sat May 09, 2015 6:14 am
Forum: Reader Response
Topic: Waiting Lists for Ridiculously Expensive Summer Camp
Replies: 6
Views: 5874

Re: Waiting Lists for Ridiculously Expensive Summer Camp

I want to stay at some of those camps! Too bad about the price (and the fact that I'm too old).
by Rainbow_connection
Sat Apr 18, 2015 9:03 am
Forum: Reader Response
Topic: Answers I liked
Replies: 1933
Views: 1556701

Re: Answers I liked

I really liked Haleakala's answer tohttps://theboard.byu.edu/questions/82241/. I think sometimes in the quest for equality and fairness it's easy to focus on sameness, but everyone's life and needs aren't the same.
by Rainbow_connection
Tue Apr 14, 2015 1:28 pm
Forum: The Less Than 100 Hour Board
Topic: To report or not to report
Replies: 6
Views: 13950

Re: To report or not to report

Ok, new quote from the same person today about a senator being attacked. "I would like to admit to something like that, but sorry it was not me. And if I ended up in a lower kingdom I am now debating if it would be worth it seeing how it is better for one man to perish than a whole nation think...
by Rainbow_connection
Sun Mar 15, 2015 8:57 pm
Forum: Soapbox
Topic: Only Female...
Replies: 21
Views: 24980

Re: Only Female...

To be fair, I had a few colleagues I REALLY liked, as well as several that were really difficult to get along with. But my boss did ask me several times when I was going to have a baby, with the implication seeming to be that I was just working until that happened. The two-year mentality is a good o...
by Rainbow_connection
Fri Mar 13, 2015 10:21 pm
Forum: Soapbox
Topic: Only Female...
Replies: 21
Views: 24980

Re: Only Female...

I used to work at Goldman. The company overall has a HUGE problem with sexism. I wish I had awesome advice for you, but I don't, so instead I'll commiserate and say that you deserve better, and I hope your department/team is better than the company average.
by Rainbow_connection
Tue Mar 10, 2015 12:08 am
Forum: Reader Response
Topic: Charlie Hebdo attacks and religion
Replies: 71
Views: 33675

Re: Charlie Hebdo attacks and religion

My husband's last name actually doesn't sound typically Hispanic. People are always asking him where he's from. When he says California they ask where he's really from, then they ask where his last name is from. It's almost funny how badly they need to know why a clearly "ethnic" person ha...
by Rainbow_connection
Mon Mar 09, 2015 7:59 pm
Forum: Reader Response
Topic: Charlie Hebdo attacks and religion
Replies: 71
Views: 33675

Re: Charlie Hebdo attacks and religion

My husband is Hispanic. He insisted that we not give any of our children Hispanic sounding names because he doesn't want to hamper their future careers. My mother-in-law agrees.
by Rainbow_connection
Wed Mar 04, 2015 12:20 pm
Forum: The Less Than 100 Hour Board
Topic: To report or not to report
Replies: 6
Views: 13950

Re: To report or not to report

It's just frustrating (and a little frightening). I can see him snapping, and then people will be talking about how all the warning signs were there and he was posting increasingly violent and disturbing things on Facebook. Or maybe he will just keep posting things and never doing anything about it....
by Rainbow_connection
Mon Mar 02, 2015 12:18 pm
Forum: The Less Than 100 Hour Board
Topic: To report or not to report
Replies: 6
Views: 13950

To report or not to report

So I have a relative on Facebook who is a major conspiracy theorist and is always posting things about how Obama is the Antichrist, vaccines are created for population control, fluoride is mind control, etc. etc. etc. The last couple of days his posts have been increasingly disturbing to me. For ins...