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by TheBlackSheep
Sat Dec 09, 2017 1:57 am
Forum: Soapbox
Topic: Mental illness is dumber
Replies: 342
Views: 915622

Re: Mental illness is dumber

I've said that the Mormon God is the original absentee father figure in my life, heh. Ha, Stuntman and I did an episode of our podcast on that idea (and attachment in general). Fantastic. Thanks for the kind words. My psychiatrist and new therapist each reminded me that BPD only really exists where...
by TheBlackSheep
Tue Dec 05, 2017 9:24 pm
Forum: Random Chatter
Topic: Churchy Faithy Stuff
Replies: 14
Views: 62741

Re: Churchy Faithy Stuff

It sounds like you are exactly where I was soon to when I left. I’m sorry. It isn’t easy or fun. That’s what finally motivated me to leave.
by TheBlackSheep
Tue Dec 05, 2017 9:21 pm
Forum: Soapbox
Topic: Mental illness is dumber
Replies: 342
Views: 915622

Re: Mental illness is dumber

Thanks for the reminders, Whistler and Zed. I needed them. Thanks for talking sense. It helped me.
by TheBlackSheep
Mon Dec 04, 2017 1:55 am
Forum: Soapbox
Topic: Mental illness is dumber
Replies: 342
Views: 915622

Re: Mental illness is dumber

I just read on Wikipedia (sourced to the DSM) that at least half of cases improve over time, so my stereotype is not true. Yeah, both the psychiatrist and my group's therapist have both stressed that BPD is treatable, and that with 6-8 years of DBT, etc. many people (most people?) can stop having e...
by TheBlackSheep
Sat Dec 02, 2017 1:11 am
Forum: Random Chatter
Topic: ghost town
Replies: 6
Views: 19063

Re: ghost town

I completely agree with your conclusion, and I think it's marvelous that you are nerdy enough to track all of that. Hats off.
by TheBlackSheep
Fri Dec 01, 2017 10:07 pm
Forum: Random Chatter
Topic: ghost town
Replies: 6
Views: 19063

Re: ghost town

Also I think they have a LOT of overdue questions. I’m waiting on two myself, one for over a month.
by TheBlackSheep
Thu Nov 30, 2017 1:07 am
Forum: Soapbox
Topic: Mental illness is dumber
Replies: 342
Views: 915622

Re: Mental illness is dumber

Thanks guys. <3
by TheBlackSheep
Sun Nov 26, 2017 4:13 pm
Forum: Soapbox
Topic: Mental illness is dumber
Replies: 342
Views: 915622

Re: Mental illness is dumber

I started day treatment a couple of weeks ago for depression and anxiety. As part of that, I've had the pleasure of working with the single best psychiatrist I've ever seen. She diagnosed me with borderline personality disorder. I was comfortable with major depressive disorder, with dysthymia, with ...
by TheBlackSheep
Fri Oct 27, 2017 10:47 pm
Forum: Random Chatter
Topic: Happy Days in Random Chatter 10
Replies: 5227
Views: 4905098

Re: Happy Days in Random Chatter 10

Right? Every time I have to tell someone where I went to school, either for tutoring gigs or on a personal level, I feel like I have to either distract and be vague ("I went to college in Utah") or give a disclaimer ("In a different lifetime, I went to BYU," "I went to BYU b...
by TheBlackSheep
Sun Sep 17, 2017 12:16 pm
Forum: Soapbox
Topic: Mental illness is dumber
Replies: 342
Views: 915622

Re: Mental illness is dumber

Girl. No, suicidal ideations are not fun. I hope they stopped and that you are doing better now.
by TheBlackSheep
Sun Sep 17, 2017 12:15 pm
Forum: Random Chatter
Topic: Hello? Is it me you're looking for?
Replies: 39
Views: 169716

Re: Hello? Is it me you're looking for?

Still around. Hi folks!
by TheBlackSheep
Tue Aug 29, 2017 2:43 am
Forum: Reader Response
Topic: 90302 - How to help a young, sexually assaulted family membe
Replies: 2
Views: 13338

Re: 90302 - How to help a young, sexually assaulted family m

Also, call a crisis line. They should be aware of resources in the area, even and especially low- or no-cost services. You can also consult places that deal a lot with young adults with parental issues or lack of support. LGBT centers come to mind. They might have ideas, even if the kid in question ...
by TheBlackSheep
Tue Aug 29, 2017 2:40 am
Forum: Reader Response
Topic: 90302 - How to help a young, sexually assaulted family membe
Replies: 2
Views: 13338

90302 - How to help a young, sexually assaulted family membe

http://theboard.byu.edu/questions/90302/ I can tell I've been watching a lot of RuPaul's Drag Race (because it is the only meaningful thing life has given us, Ru be praised) because I wanted to start this comment off with, "No T, no shade." Waiting to get someone into therapy after a traum...
by TheBlackSheep
Wed Jul 26, 2017 8:09 pm
Forum: Soapbox
Topic: Rant of the Day
Replies: 630
Views: 1167924

Re: Rant of the Day

My ultra-TBM (stake patriarch, former stake president, etc.) paternal grandfather died this week. Five or six years ago, when my youngest sister graduated from high school, I happened to be ready to introduce my family to a girlfriend for the first time. (She wasn't my first girlfriend, and I had be...
by TheBlackSheep
Sat Jul 22, 2017 12:27 pm
Forum: Random Chatter
Topic: Hello? Is it me you're looking for?
Replies: 39
Views: 169716

Re: Hello? Is it me you're looking for?

Oh I am a SUPER imbiber. So that too. Also I live in Oregon and all I have to say is REEFER MADNESS.

The Black Sheep: Evil, evil imbiber/apostate/fornicator/disparager of Mormonism/enthusiastic swearer/homosexual/pretty nice guy. And that goes for all you whores of Babylon. I like you guys.
by TheBlackSheep
Sat Jul 22, 2017 12:53 am
Forum: Random Chatter
Topic: Hello? Is it me you're looking for?
Replies: 39
Views: 169716

Re: Hello? Is it me you're looking for?

I do what I can.

Even if I am an evil, evil fornicator/disparager of Mormonism/swearer/homosexual/whatever else he said we all were.
by TheBlackSheep
Thu Jul 20, 2017 11:53 pm
Forum: Random Chatter
Topic: Hello? Is it me you're looking for?
Replies: 39
Views: 169716

Re: Hello? Is it me you're looking for?

You dirty apostate.
by TheBlackSheep
Tue Jul 11, 2017 11:45 pm
Forum: Random Chatter
Topic: Hello? Is it me you're looking for?
Replies: 39
Views: 169716

Re: Hello? Is it me you're looking for?

I LOVED parts of it, like the studies she cited that demonstrate that obesity and genetics have a strong relationship. I wished that the first part of her answer had been less conciliatory, hey-buddy-I-can-see-you're-a-reasonable-guy-I'm-gonna-be-nice-so-you'll-listen-y. I'm sure that that bit was p...
by TheBlackSheep
Tue Jul 11, 2017 8:06 pm
Forum: Random Chatter
Topic: Hello? Is it me you're looking for?
Replies: 39
Views: 169716

Re: Hello? Is it me you're looking for?

Yeah, I am having the same reaction to the Kosher Boardboard.

I just moved in with Unlucky Stuntman and her boyfriend in Portland a little less than two weeks ago. My girlfriend is coming for a visit tomorrow. I've made a lot of progress since moving.