Well, we were texting a little today and I found a not-too-awkward opportunity to ask if she and the guy were dating exclusively, and she said this:
And then (after a few "buffer texts") I eventually suggested that we could maybe do something together soon, to which she agreed.No we're not we've been dating but not exclusively.
Um, mixed signals? I personally wouldn't hold hands with someone if I weren't dating them exclusively, but I guess she doesn't feel that way. Hm. (Maybe the guy is initiating the hand-holding, I think hopefully.) Regardless, my MAIN question is, since she specifically told me she isn't dating exclusively, how acceptable is it for me to try to move in and date her? The other guy and I are friendly acquaintances so it will probably be awkward, but I think I'm willing to risk that. I guess I feel sort of like I will be "stealing" her if she started dating me instead (and I bet other people in my ward would look at it that way, too). In the past I think I've told myself that situations like this weren't "worth it," but I am interested in this girl and I think I'm going to tell myself that we are both awesome people and it is worth it to not just consign myself to "Forever Alone" land again.
So, how horrible of a person am I?