Concorde wrote:It was rather elitist.
Concorde wrote:Michigan accents are ugly.
Bahahaha this is why I love you.
Yes, some of his Midwestern idiosyncracies are less than mellifluous and certainly not posh. But we're just a couple of blue-collar kids from flyover country trying to make it big. So in the end, I find it charming. Since you're studying French, I'd suggest you read about some of these
arriviste characters, and how language plays into how society perceives them, and really, whether society is all it's cracked up to be.
I'd much prefer dating a guy who was a bit on the geeky side, and who had the nerd's tendency to go on (and on!) about things that interested him, rather than the smarmy self-conscious preppy talk of the squad of Young Republicans who seem to think I should become their respective arm candy. I've always had the vocabulary of a Princeton man of the 1910s, but I don't know how I'd feel if I no longer sounded like the Utah girl I am. I know I give an impression of really caring about being posh, and yeah, a life in Flint is not that, but really, I have a weakness for the poor-boy-made-good trope.
I don't have any experience, really, with urban communities of color, but if blue-collar white kids put this much thought into "passing," then I imagine the problem to only be more difficult when your way of speaking is viewed not just as "ugly" but "wrong."