Some of these people think we are intolerant because of our beliefs; and they think we are homophobic, mean-spirited, intolerant, discriminatory, bigoted, narrow-minded, and show a lack of respect for diversity.
I'd say in a lot of cases, they'd be right to think so. We can be all of those things if we're not careful and don't put the emphasis on God's love for all his children, the atonement, and the fact we are all sinners working towards an eternal goal, whether we know it or not. We may be closer to the goal than others, but that doesn't give us the right to judge others.
So, what should be taught in our public schools? The law says that you have to teach the children about families as early as kindergarten, and if Prop 8 passes what we are going to see taught is a belief which is approximately opposite to our own.
Could you give me more information on the law that says school have to teach about families? I'm not being snarky, I honestly want to know about it since it keeps being referenced. I'd have a lot more issue with the school deciding to poke it's nose where it doesn't belong than I do with them exposing my kids to the fact that some people believe differently than us.
If you have a well-liked teacher, who is a practicing lesbian, and the school sponsors a trip to her wedding with another lesbian, what do you think the children are going to learn? They will see a happy, loving couple. They will see a joyous ceremony. They will see adults applauding this behavior. Remember, we are talking about impressible little children ages 5 and 6.
My kids would be seeing the truth: there are likable people who are gay. It's possible for them to genuinely love each other. Much of the world approves of this. None of the above statements are false. I can hide them from these true statements, or I can use it as an opportunity to teach my children from a young age that there are beliefs different than our own, and that people that believe differently than us aren't bad people. They're just missing out on the happiness we find from the gospel.
How are you going to counter this kind of indoctrination and brain washing?... It will be very hard to get people to listen to the gospel with an open mind if they are trained up to believe that you are evil.
Funny... non mormons could make these exact same arguments about the methods we use in our church to teach children.
Our kids are going to be exposed to the fact not everyone believes the same as us. It's unavoidable. As a kid growing up, I saw non-married couples living together. I saw young single moms who were obviously never married. I saw people smoke, drink, where immodest clothes... Does it mean I emulated those behaviors? No. My parents taught me better.
Rather than pretend it's not true, we should use it as an opportunity to teach our kids. I'll tell you exactly how it could go:
Me: Daniel (that's my son's name), what did you learn at school today?
Daniel: We saw my favorite teacher marry another lady
Me: How do you feel about it?
Daniel: I'm confused- they seemed happy and it seemed like they love each other but every one is telling me they're different from us and we're wrong
Me: It's true, they probably were happy. Isn't it sad that they can only be happy for now, but when they die they won't get to be together anymore? Is it sad they can't have babies together because there's no daddy?
Daniel: Yeah, that is sad.
Me: Heavenly Father wants all his children to be happy forever, so it makes him sad to see his children make choices that will only make them happy for right now, but make them sad later on. Does sinning sometimes make us happy for a short period? How about when you stole my candy the other day- did it taste good?
Daniel: Yeah, it was yummy.
Me: But when I found out about it and you realized you had made me sad, and you had to apologize sit on the stairs, how did that make you feel?
Daniel: I was sad.
Me: Sometimes doing stuff Heavenly Father doesn't want us to do can make us happy for a little while, even if we don't know what we're doing is wrong. (*grabs picture of me and my husband on our wedding day at the temple*) Do mommy and daddy look happy here?
Daniel: yeah
Me: We're happy in the picture because we were just sealed for time and all eternity. We know we are following God's plan, and that someday we could have a family together! Adn after we die, we can all stay together as a family. How long will that make us happy, do you think?
Daniel: Forever!
Me: That's right! Now, not everyone knows about Heavenly Father's plan for us. What should we do to help them understand? Should we make them feel stupid because they ddon't know the gospel yet?
Daniel: No
Me: What would Jesus do? Would he make them feel loved? Would he set a good example?
Daniel: Yeah
Me: So let's do those things and remember not everyone believes the same as us. All we have control over are the choices we make based on what we know about God's plan for us.
This would be in addition to other lessons on how not everyone follows the commandments that we do. All a kid needs to see is someone smoking to see that. But I hope to teach my children not to judge, to see the good in everybody, to set a good example, and how to be a missionary.
Heck, I'll let my children watch Ocean's 11, which is all about glorifying stealing, and no Mormon would think twice about that. They watch Harry Potter, where people kill each other, and no one really worries about that. They'll have heros in the music industry, in the movie industry, in fiction, in real life, who all practice things contrary to our beliefs.
But Ellen Degeneres? Keep her away from my kids!!!
Lastly, I'm really sad that you'd choose to equate being a member of the KKK to being gay. KKK rally= hate-fueled and violent. Gay marriage= misguided, but still based on love, albeit worldy love. It's not like they took the kids to a homosexual orgy where they saw the sin itself taking place.
Not all sins are equal. Remember, we are all sinners, and those not in the church do not have the knowledge that we have that there is a higher plan.