I could be mistaken. I often am. I was going on what the Wikipedia article you referenced said. “The Kinsey scale attempts to describe a person’s sexual history or episodes of their sexual activity at a given time.†I see that Kinsey did write “…it has seemed desirable to develop some sort of classification which could be based on the relative amounts of heterosexual and homosexual experience or response in each history…†So, I guess we also include “response,†and not just experience.Damasta wrote:Imogen said:I think this goes back to the Kinsey Scale. The fluidity of sexual orientation relates, I think, to people whose lifetime score is anywhere from a 1 to a 6 on the Kinsey Scale. So they're really just bisexual and they 'focus' on male partners or female partners at different times in their lives.sexual orientation isn't fixed. it can be fluid. it's more complex than just gay, straight, and bi.
Mr. Blade misunderstood when he wondered if the Kinsey Scale was based solely on experience—it's based on experience and reaction. So even though he's never actually had a sexual encounter with another male, feeling attracted to one may indicate that he is other than a 0 on the Kinsey Scale.
I also feel that the Kinsey scale is related to 'homosexual recidivism'. There are often reports from people who claim to have overcome homosexuality in their lives. I suspect (though I have no evidence to back me up) that they probably only rated as a 1 to 4 on the Kinsey Scale and they have enough heterosexual attraction to maintain them. I think it is 5s and 6s on the Kinsey scale that inevitably slide back into homosexual behavior.
Well, I’ve certainly felt an emotional attraction to men. I’ve heard it said that the difference between men and women is that both prefer the company of men. That’s not what I believe, at least not all the time, but I can understand the idea.
I never allowed myself to develop a romantic attraction with another man. And since I’ve been married I’ve never allowed myself to develop a romantic attraction with either men or women, except my wife.
I’ve heard of men and women who have changed their sexual orientation. The National Association for Research & Therapy of Homosexuality (NARTH) has done a lot of research on it. There are some who say that the therapy is only temporary and gays eventually go back to their previous sexual orientation. NARTH says they have data that shows otherwise. See http://www.narth.com/
I’ve read a lot of personal stories of those who were once practicing homosexuals, but who changed years ago. Some of these people were exclusively homosexual, so I think that would put them in the 6 category of the Kinsey scale. It seems reasonable to me that if you can move from being a 3 to being a zero, you could move from being a 5 or 6 to being a 3 or 4, and from there move to being a zero. I read some of these stories on http://www.stonewallrevisited.com/ The site has been discontinued, but if you go there you are referred to other sites (such as http://pfox.org/stories.html) which give similar stories of people who once were a 6 but are now a zero on the Kinsey scale.