Really? Wow. I find that to be disappointing. It seems to devalue marriage, which I thought was a big deal to LDS conservatives.Q: what do you hunk the CULTURAL implications would be?
A: Legal marriages can't be performed in the temple in Brazil. Most active, temple-worthy couples that I know there treated their sealing as their "official" marriage. They would get legally married several days prior, but continue to act as though they weren't married until they were sealed. They'd snap a few photos at the legal ceremony, but it was largely a non-event. I could see a similar culture developing in the US; the civil ceremony would just be a paperwork step in the process and would be about as exciting and noteworthy as filing for a marriage license.
If you're married, you're married. I actually think that since within the LDS theological framework sealing is a big deal and not the same thing as being married it would behoove many people to have a cultural shift to separating the wedding and sealing process. (Guilt-tripping stories about horrifying deaths shortly after a sealing notwithstanding. >.< )
I feel a lot of pressure with a guy I’ve recently been seeing to conflate the two which I think is sort of rushing things (like how genuine is “repentance” if you’re motivated by liking someone?) and also makes it seem like cultural expectations are more important than making promises you’re ready for and intend to keep. I think it’d be different if we were both, say, former missionaries who had been through the temple several years before.
But anyway, I think all people should have to be civilly married, like it is in France.