Humor will not be tolerated!! -Portia

@mico thanks. it ended up going pretty good. not awkward or anything. still not certain what's going to happen in the future...

Yellow M&M, I already told you this, but I'm thrilled for you and the way things are going right now.

And Craig: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t-7mQhSZRgM

Frollo is very bad for your self-esteem.

Not that anyone cares, but I did find out that 3d doesn't want to be in a relationship right now. Although I'm still hoping that changes in the next few weeks and months. After all, the interest is there. And I didn't destroy any chances because I didn't completely throw myself at him.

Now you know!

How'd you find out? Did you ask him?? Or did you use secret spy skills that girls just tend to use when scoping out potential relationships?

I went down there with the intent to dtr, but we ended up just talking about our days as per usual. My day happened to be spent with a former roommate who was bored because her BF of three days was sick and she couldn't hang out with him. He then said that relationships are overrated and I asked why he said that and the conversation went from there. But honestly it wasn't much different than a normal conversation for us, so I plan on maintaining the current relationship level, while developing friendships with other guys too. And I'll re-evaluate in a couple months.

Ah yes, the indirect approach. Discussing things generally when you really want to discuss them specifically.

I tend to use the indirect approach with my fiance when I'm trying to discuss relationship issues with him. Unfortunately, he has picked up on it and knows exactly what I'm really saying. I feel like my cover has been blown! I can't be all sneaky any more... But maybe that's a good thing. Probably.

thebigcheese wrote:Ah yes, the indirect approach. Discussing things generally when you really want to discuss them specifically.

I tend to use the indirect approach with my fiance when I'm trying to discuss relationship issues with him. Unfortunately, he has picked up on it and knows exactly what I'm really saying. I feel like my cover has been blown! I can't be all sneaky any more... But maybe that's a good thing. Probably.

I know exactly what you mean. What if I want to dance around the topic instead of addressing it directly? ; )

I wasn't intending to be indirect. I twice showed up at a guys door and forced him to go on a walk with me and discuss how he felt about me. But last night just didn't feel like the time to come out and say "I like you. You like me. Now what?"

bobtheenchantedone wrote:

thebigcheese wrote:Ah yes, the indirect approach. Discussing things generally when you really want to discuss them specifically.

I tend to use the indirect approach with my fiance when I'm trying to discuss relationship issues with him. Unfortunately, he has picked up on it and knows exactly what I'm really saying. I feel like my cover has been blown! I can't be all sneaky any more... But maybe that's a good thing. Probably.

I know exactly what you mean. What if I want to dance around the topic instead of addressing it directly? ; )

Heh. Y'know those times, late at night, when you're all alone and wondering if you'll ever get married? This is the antithesis of that.

I'm not sure if it is healthy to have many of either moments, but danged if I'm not glad to be single all too often. All I'm in need of is a NCCB (Non-Commital Cuddle Buddy) and I'd be good to go.

Sooo, Indefinite Integral, how you doin?

Tao, please do not hit on people using online forums. It's tacky.

Also, please disregard the following message from Bob.

Do not disregared the following message from me.

Marduk only has a girlfriend right now because he used an online forum to hit on one of the admins.

Bob, this is neither the time nor the place. Besides, it is well documented that YOU came on to ME.

Did not! I was all "Hey, thanks for being all level-headed in the Reader Response forum, that was kinda awesome. If your body is anywhere near as sexy as your intellect, then you should date and probably marry me." And you were all, "that's wierd on an online forum. If you'd like to compliment me, it perhaps would work better in person."


Okay, that's what Marduk wrote after breaking into my account.

What I really said: I was all "Hey, thanks for being all level-headed in the Reader Response firynm that was kinda awesome." And you were all "WE NEED TO HAVE ANOTHER PARTY SO I CAN MEET YOU I LIKE PEOPLE WHO COMPLIMENT ME HURR"

I've just solved my problem. I've been looking for men in real life when I should be looking for them here.

Unit of Energy wrote:I've just solved my problem. I've been looking for men in real life when I should be looking for them here.

A...men?

I am not sure if I agree with that right now. I agreed with it 30 seconds ago but I changed my mind.

In other news, I'm in Kansas.

that's alright, I didn't ever really believe it.

Unit of Energy wrote:I've just solved my problem. I've been looking for men in real life when I should be looking for them here.

I know this doesn't really work for me. I have trouble finding men online.