neighborly etiquette
Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2012 3:10 pm
So we have some new neighbors who just moved in a few days ago. We haven't actually met them or seen them yet, but we're in a townhouse so we share a wall. They have something in their apartment that makes the world's most annoying thunking rhythm that transmits really loudly to a few rooms in our house. At first I thought they were hammering something into a wall, but after the perfectly constant rhythm went on for hours, I guess it's probably a ceiling fan that's loose and clunking on the ceiling a little? I don't know what else it could be.
But anyway, my question is this: what is the best way to tell them about the noise? I'm planning on going over there to say hi eventually, but it seems kind of rude to be like, "oh hey, welcome to the neighborhood, also GET OUR LANDLADY TO FIX THAT HORRIBLE FAN IT IS KEEPING ME UP AT NIGHT." Does anyone have any advice for letting them know how loud it is without being a jerk? Are there nice ways to tell a stranger that something they're doing in their own home is driving you nuts? I guess my other problem is that it seems unsocial to leave a note without ever having met them, and it also seems unsocial to bring it up the first time we're meeting them...thoughts?
But anyway, my question is this: what is the best way to tell them about the noise? I'm planning on going over there to say hi eventually, but it seems kind of rude to be like, "oh hey, welcome to the neighborhood, also GET OUR LANDLADY TO FIX THAT HORRIBLE FAN IT IS KEEPING ME UP AT NIGHT." Does anyone have any advice for letting them know how loud it is without being a jerk? Are there nice ways to tell a stranger that something they're doing in their own home is driving you nuts? I guess my other problem is that it seems unsocial to leave a note without ever having met them, and it also seems unsocial to bring it up the first time we're meeting them...thoughts?