Awkward situations with promises
Posted: Fri Sep 13, 2013 10:18 pm
Oh, dear. I am an advisor for a student club at the school where I teach, and one of the bigwigs who helps us out from the community said that he could provide pizza for an opening social. So of course I decided to make that the selling point for people to come, and we've advertised it that way to about 200 people...and now my bigwig friend is not wanting to provide pizza since we're not sure how many people we're counting on.
It's my own fault, since I ignored the little voice in the back of my head that said "Don't promise something that depends on someone else to fulfill, and that you're not 100% sure will be followed through with." I hate to disappoint the students who will be coming looking for the free pizza they were promised, but obviously I don't think I can tell the bigwig, "you have to provide pizza because I promised it to everyone!"
I think the best decision is to just suck it up, say "OK" to the bigwig, and let some as-of-yet-undetermined but large number of students get annoyed when they show up to the activity and only find punch and cookies. But that still doesn't mean I'm happy about it. What do y'all think is a reasonable course of action?
It's my own fault, since I ignored the little voice in the back of my head that said "Don't promise something that depends on someone else to fulfill, and that you're not 100% sure will be followed through with." I hate to disappoint the students who will be coming looking for the free pizza they were promised, but obviously I don't think I can tell the bigwig, "you have to provide pizza because I promised it to everyone!"
I think the best decision is to just suck it up, say "OK" to the bigwig, and let some as-of-yet-undetermined but large number of students get annoyed when they show up to the activity and only find punch and cookies. But that still doesn't mean I'm happy about it. What do y'all think is a reasonable course of action?