On January 11, 2011 at 7:00 am I listened to a talk on the Mormon Channel (radio) by Dallin H. Oaks entitled "Institute of Religion Devotional" which is very, very unhelpful. It was given on October 8, 1982. I have non idea what it would have been called, but I remember the first part talked a LOT about church courts way back in the day and how you had to go through them before you could go to a civil court if you wanted to keep good standing in the church. I remember thinking, "Wait, is that even still applicable? Why is he giving a talk on this anyway?" I totally missed the beginning, so maybe he said. Towards the end he then talked about a letter he got from this guy and a few encounters he had with other people and financial disputes. One had to do with getting backed into by a guy going to the temple and the guy said a few choice words and didn't want to pay for the damage and Guy A just felt bad for him because he was going to the temple with that kind of attitude, and accepted far less than it would take to repair the damage. Another story had Guy A (I assume the stories were all about the same guy) who had a dispute with a landlord and ended up taking him to mediation, then court over it. The court ruled in favor of the landlord. Guy A wrote him a nice long letter telling him that he still believed he was in the right, but hoped that the dispute wouldn't harm their relationship as brothers in the gospel. The Landlord wrote back telling him that he still believed he was in the right, but he'd been doing a lot of thinking about what Jesus would do and decided that when asked for his coat, he should give his cloak also and enclosed a check for double the disputed amount.
E. Oaks never made a definitive, "This is what we should do" statement. In fact, he kept saying, "Is that what we should do? I don't know." He even admitted that he had planned on giving another talk that night, but then that talk was published in the Ensign, so instead he was just giving his thoughts and musings on this topic. He even invited people to write to him their opinions and thoughts at the Supreme Court building (since he was a Utah Supreme Court Justice at the time).
So… anyone? Anyone? I'd really love a transcript of this talk.