Answers I liked
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- SmurfBlueSnuggie
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http://theboard.byu.edu/questions/73263/
My 21 year old sister is dating a 28 year old. For a time, I was dating a 24 year old who plays/judges tournaments/sells/collects/writes articles about YuGiOh!
I am highly concerned by my sister's potentially abusive relationship while I am sad that factors beyond our control ended things between me and my geeky boy. I think know where I stand on this matter.
My 21 year old sister is dating a 28 year old. For a time, I was dating a 24 year old who plays/judges tournaments/sells/collects/writes articles about YuGiOh!
I am highly concerned by my sister's potentially abusive relationship while I am sad that factors beyond our control ended things between me and my geeky boy. I think know where I stand on this matter.
It doesn't matter what happened to get you to today, beyond shaping your understanding. What really matters is where you go from here.
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Good perspective. There are definitely worse things than having a hobby.SmurfBlueSnuggie wrote:http://theboard.byu.edu/questions/73263/
My 21 year old sister is dating a 28 year old. For a time, I was dating a 24 year old who plays/judges tournaments/sells/collects/writes articles about YuGiOh!
I am highly concerned by my sister's potentially abusive relationship while I am sad that factors beyond our control ended things between me and my geeky boy. I think know where I stand on this matter.
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Yeah, I don't see what the big deal is about having a hobby. But then, I married a guy who's a huge PC gamer, so my perspective might be strange.
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Having a hobby isn't so bad.
Pokémon, on the other hand, is awful.
Also, auto-correct just added an accent to Pokémon, without me doing so. Damn your ubiquity Pikachu!
Pokémon, on the other hand, is awful.
Also, auto-correct just added an accent to Pokémon, without me doing so. Damn your ubiquity Pikachu!
Deus ab veritas
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Potentially abusive just because of the age difference or are there other warning signs?SmurfBlueSnuggie wrote:I am highly concerned by my sister's potentially abusive relationship . . .
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There are other warning signs. I just find the idea that the age gap is an issue to be odd. My sister has a very large age gap between her and her boyfriend. But I'm concerned about more serious issues. Like his possessiveness and very short temper. I think what I'm trying to say is that 28 and anime-card-game-obsessed are both totally ok. What they mean in regards to his treatment of her is the greater issue. If his card games are more important than time with his girl, that's a problem. If he feels that his age means he has the right to control the relationship, that's a problem. The simple fact that he's older and plays cards are just parts of who he is.Katya wrote:Potentially abusive just because of the age difference or are there other warning signs?SmurfBlueSnuggie wrote:I am highly concerned by my sister's potentially abusive relationship . . .
It doesn't matter what happened to get you to today, beyond shaping your understanding. What really matters is where you go from here.
- SmurfBlueSnuggie
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Stego Lily, you rock! This is such an awesome answer. It's so true that being happy and having an awesome life while being single is super important.
I have nothing else to say, except repeat that you are super great.
Stego Lily, you rock! This is such an awesome answer. It's so true that being happy and having an awesome life while being single is super important.
I have nothing else to say, except repeat that you are super great.
It doesn't matter what happened to get you to today, beyond shaping your understanding. What really matters is where you go from here.
Re: Answers I liked
http://theboard.byu.edu/questions/73238/
I love when Squirrel answers questions with the persona of an actual squirrel.
I love when Squirrel answers questions with the persona of an actual squirrel.
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Re: Answers I liked
http://theboard.byu.edu/questions/73261/
It was interesting to see that the answer had a yes-no-yes-no-yes-no pattern. I mean- the answers could have come in a completely mixed up order....
It was interesting to see that the answer had a yes-no-yes-no-yes-no pattern. I mean- the answers could have come in a completely mixed up order....
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Stego Lily
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Yeah, it totally took me a few seconds to figure out what she was doing and then I laughed out loud.Emiliana wrote:http://theboard.byu.edu/questions/73238/
I love when Squirrel answers questions with the persona of an actual squirrel.
- vorpal blade
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I liked Tally M.'s response to my question about antidepressant usage in Utah. http://theboard.byu.edu/questions/73195/ Good information, balanced answer. I appreciate the time and effort it took to answer the question.
- vorpal blade
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I liked the answers to the question from the Critic. http://theboard.byu.edu/questions/73069/ I learned some things about how it works at the 100 Hour board, behind the scenes. When I read the question I could easily imagine some angry answers in response to the insensitive question, but instead the Board handled it well. Congratulations.
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Thanks! Sorry it took so long, though.vorpal blade wrote:I liked Tally M.'s response to my question about antidepressant usage in Utah. http://theboard.byu.edu/questions/73195/ Good information, balanced answer. I appreciate the time and effort it took to answer the question.
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http://theboard.byu.edu/questions/73266/
Hahahaha remember that time I was appalled if my boyfriend stayed up later than like 10:30 or 11? I am still totally that girl.
(I probably shouldn't find this quote so funny but I do: "Do I need to be willing to stay out later in order to get this marriage thing to happen?")
Hahahaha remember that time I was appalled if my boyfriend stayed up later than like 10:30 or 11? I am still totally that girl.
(I probably shouldn't find this quote so funny but I do: "Do I need to be willing to stay out later in order to get this marriage thing to happen?")
- vorpal blade
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You are more than welcome. No problem on being late. I had the question on my mind for two years, so what is another week's wait?Tally M. wrote:Thanks! Sorry it took so long, though.vorpal blade wrote:I liked Tally M.'s response to my question about antidepressant usage in Utah. http://theboard.byu.edu/questions/73195/ Good information, balanced answer. I appreciate the time and effort it took to answer the question.
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I was also present at Art Vandelay's Hostess poem reading, and am pleased to see it released to the board reading public, mostly for the Little Debbie and twitter lines. I snorted.
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The editors suddenly remember a really really old question. I was reading it like "Zedability - what? Ineffable - WHAT??"
- vorpal blade
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I wondered about that, but since I haven't been reading the board until lately I didn't really know how long these writers had been gone. Is there a way for us ordinary folks to see when the question was first asked?